"I'm too busy!" "It's nothing, it'll go away by itself." "I can't find a doctor I like." " My insurance won't cover it." "I DON'T SNORE!"
One excuse after another... We men are masters of avoiding a visit to a doctor's office. But whatever the excuse, a woman is often aware that her man is having medical issues long before he is willing to admit it. In the case of snoring and its serious counterpart, obstructive sleep apnea, stalling could be deadly.
So what do you need to know about your man's snoring?
1.Snoring is not his faultSnoring results from a partial blockage of the airway during sleep. As a snorer breathes, air is forced through narrowed passages around loose tissue like the soft palate and uvula. As the air passes over these structures, noise is created much like the sound of a flag flapping in the breeze.
So snoring is an anatomic, medical noise that he can't control.
But it's still a problem. In 2006, Rosalind Cartwright of the Rush University Medical Center found that wives could be sleep deprived due to their husband’s snoring. This puts a strain on the marriage and creates a hostile and tense situation resulting in a high divorce rate.
2.Snoring alone can cause serious medical problemsResearch at the University of New South Wales in Australia this spring found that one in four middle aged men who snore are at risk for developing brain damage while they sleep. Caroline Rae, the lead author, found that snoring associated with obstructive sleep apnea caused changes in brain energy levels that mimic the changes that happens just before dying or after a stroke.
And speaking of stroke, in 2008, a research team headed up by Sharon Lee, again in Australia, found that heavy snoring significantly increases the risk of plaque build up in the carotid arteries that supply blood to the brain. Plaque in the carotid arteries is a leading cause of stroke.
3. Snoring can be a sign of obstructive sleep apneaWhen the airway becomes completely blocked, it's called obstructive sleep apnea. This blockage of the airway prevents oxygen from reaching tissues throughout the body and has been implicated in cardiovascular disease, high blood pressure, diabetes, stroke, obesity, depression, excessive daytime sleepiness and depression.
It has been estimated that in the United States alone 20 million men, women and children suffer from obstructive sleep apnea. Millions more snore. Of these 20 million, only about 10% have been diagnosed despite the fact that the average life span of an untreated sleep apneic is years less than those without sleep apnea.
4.Snoring and apnea can be a cause of EDFor those men with sleep apnea, erectile dysfunction may be part of the package (no pun intended). ED may be caused by long-standing intermittent decreased oxygen levels in the blood associated with episodes of obstructed breathing. What is important is that it is possible to reverse erectile dysfunction by treating snoring and sleep apnea dramatically improving the quality of life. One study showed that Cialis may ease the problem of ED, but does not totally overcome the problem in men with obstructive sleep apnea.
Snoring may even effect a man's libido. Men who suffer from obstructive sleep apnea produce lower levels of testosterone resulting in decreased sexual activity.
5.Snoring, Apnea and excessive daytime sleepinessWhen complete airway blockage occurs during an apneic episode, your man will partially awaken to start breathing. Although he won't remember this in the morning, it can happen hundreds of times a night leading to fragmented sleep. As a result, he could awake with a headache and be more tired in the morning than he was the night before and tend to doze off easily while driving and at work.
According to the National Sleep Foundation's Sleep in America poll, 60% of Americans have driven while feeling sleepy and 37% admit to actually having fallen asleep at the wheel in the past year. Each year almost 2,000 people die in crashes caused by drowsy driving, according to the National Highway Traffic Safety Administration. And thousands more are injured as a result of sleepy pilots, boat captains and truck drivers.*
So what can you do to help?Be aware!
If your man snores and stops breathing during sleep, if he has high blood pressure and if he dozes off while driving, get him to see a sleep specialist or a specially trained dentist. Help him to lose weight, help him to stop smoking, control the alcohol consumption - but most of all - make sure he gets to someone who can help.
* SnoringIsntSexy.com has launched a survey to determine the extent of sleepiness with those who interact with the public. The survey is at
snoringisntsexy.com.